Guys have a way of acting as if they don’t need us (ladies) around. But, try ignoring a guy and see what happens. It is an excellent way to get him and keep.
Guys are predictable creatures. If you chase them, they run. If you are too needy, they pull away. So here’s what to do:
1. Bring out the “hunter” in him
Men are really the “hunters.” There is nothing they enjoy more than chasing after something they want that they can’t have or catch. If you ignore him and make him feel as if he can’t have you, he wants you even more. I know, totally dumb. But the thing he desires most is ussually the thing he can’t have.
2. Ignore him if he craves power
Guys like to feel powerful and successful. If you are something unconquerable, it will be all he seeks. If you ignore a guy, he feels powerless to win you over.
Wanting to be in control, it literally drives him nuts that no matter how hard he tries, you just really don’t care enough to acknowledge him. If you worry that he will give up and quit, think again. Ignoring him only makes him work harder.
3. Make him think you are something special
Usually, when girls like a guy, they can’t do enough to get their attention. Flirting, they hang on a guy’s every word and make him feel super special about himself.
If you want a guy used to girls falling all over themselves to capture his eyes, you must set yourself apart from the rest by being what all the other girls aren’t.
Ignoring him confuses him to no end. The girls he doesn’t want, can’t seem to tear themselves away, and the one that he does, doesn’t want anything to do with him. It makes him think there is something special that you alone possess. It makes him want to have you.
4. Teach him not to mess with you
If you’re in a relationship with a guy who either doesn’t give you enough attention or with a wandering eye, show him what if feels like for someone to discount his feelings or make him feel less than.
The only way to tame a guy who seemingly can’t be bothered with your relationship is to show him the sting of what if feels like when you dump him. Shutting him out and ignoring him altogether makes him think twice about what you really mean to him.
And, it also teaches him that if he can’t get his himself together and start treating you right, you have no problem walking away and saying goodbye. To hold onto him, make him believe he is disposable, and also you are not.
In a nut shell, the thing most guys want most is the thing they can’t have, so be that thing he can’t seem to catch by ignoring him.
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